My Dog in Rehab

As long as we live, we keep learning how to live it.

Benefits of a training diary

I write a personal training diary of our mantrailing training since the very beginning. Those who know me also know that I’m a very detail-oriented person and I like to plan ahead. This attitude of mine reflects in how I train my dog, too.

Our first training was on the 20th of March 2017. I remember it very well. We had been doing a 101 course at the dog school where we went at that time. After a little hide-and-seek at the school our homework was to try a short trail with a family member. Rosie’s first trail was about 50m, consisting of 3 very short tracks at the backyard of my family’s house. My mother was the runner. It was pure fun, and accidentally it happened to become what I learned later: a fence ID. Up to date we have had exactly 104 trainings and I have a written record of each and every one of it.

The importance of writing

A training diary probably is one of the most important tools in my toolbox. It was extremely useful in many cases, of which I give a few examples:

There was a period with one particular trainer when we usually trained in the woods. After a while I recognized that I lost focus on my primary goal, namely to socialize my dog in various environments by motivational runs. I started to focus on applying for trainings in urban settings. It turned out to be a good idea.

My dog has a fearful reactivity to people, so mantrailing for us is a positive activity by which I can socialize my dog and teach her to co-operate with people. Besides socialization to different environmental stimuli, this is my other main goal in mantrailing. When we learn a new technique or the environment has certain difficulties, I always need familiar trail layers to avoid trigger stacking and a possible act of aggressivity. It is also important to keep a balance between learning new things and maintaining the focus on socialization with people. In the latter case I work with runners who are strangers to my dog and we always run only short motivational trails. Without a training diary it would be impossible for me to follow our progress. Our minds can play tricks, too, when it comes to memory and remembering past events.

When my dog first showed signs of stress at a find (slapping her ears back, panting), she was trying to tell me that she was not comfortable. I didn’t understand her why she was doing this. Mistakes can be rarely seen immediately. They will show up only later in various forms and shapes. It is almost impossible to discover the root causes. Mantrailing is more complex than that and what people usually do, they restart building the foundations. Without knowing the mistake, unfortunately there is a risk that it will show up again. In this particular case, I supposed that Rosie’s behavior was only a symptom of frustrating events in the past. I needed to think through what had happened during the previous mantrailing sessions. It turned out to be a series of small frustrating events that affected my dog and resulted in avoidance and demotivation. The devil is in the detail. Videos were also really helpful to review our training. I have about 70 of them.

10 reasons to write a training diary

Overall, my training diary have helped me several ways:

  1. follow our progress
  2. keep focus on goals
  3. structure the training and plan ahead
  4. keep it objective as possible
  5. observe patterns and performance trends
  6. discover what works
  7. recover from mistakes
  8. share knowledge and experience with trainers and fellow sports pals
  9. motivate and inspire myself
  10. boost confidence

The elements of my training diary

My training diary is a simple Google Spreadsheet – an excellent online collaboration tool. Personally, I found these elements useful to keep a record of:

  • date
  • place
  • trainer
  • environment (location and difficulties [eg. wheather conditions])
  • start type
  • training type
  • familiarity with the trail layer
  • overall feeling of the training
  • goal of the training
  • general description
  • lessons learned

A few of these viewpoints are important for me, because I practice mantrailing as rehabilitation for my fearful reactive dog. For others other things will be important. It is purely up to the dog handler.

I encourage everyone who seriously train their dog to write a training diary. Let it be an excel sheet, a hand-written bullet journal, or a plain text, it doesn’t matter, just do it, keep it simple and consistent. I have seen its benefits many times. It is not a duty, it is a pleasure – eventually, keeping it joyful and motivating is our purpose in training, and in writing a training diary, too.

Why ignoring bad behavior will not stop it

I often hear from trainers that if I ignore a bad behavior, the dog will never do it again. It’s a very common advice that rarely works and is based on a huge misunderstanding of how rewards work.

The explanation is usually this one: animals will more likely repeat a behavior that is rewarded, and will stop doing something that remains unrewarded. Everyone knows that who ever trained a dog, right?

“My dog jumps on visitors.”
“Just ignore the dog.”
“It doesn’t work, I tried.”

“My dog is shaking under the table during fireworks.”
“Ignore her fear, and he will calm down. He will learn that he is not in danger.”
“But he seems to be more and more in panic.”

Well, well… In my opinion people who give such a useful and good advice (nah!), simply doesn’t understand learning theory and reward systems (or dogs).

Why does a behavior repeat even if it is unrewarded?

A reward, by definition, can be any stimulus, object, activity or situation that are naturally pleasurable, facilitate survival, or homestasis, or associated by these through learning.

The arrival of a guest is an exciting and joyful event. This affectionate and positive state is the reward of jumping and running around.
Sniffing, smelling something and hunting for it is a naturally pleasurable activity for dogs (that can also serve the survival of a hungry dog or the end of boredom while the owners are away), so digging in the garden can be highly rewarding.
For a fearful dog or a dog with territorial aggression, snapping will be rewarding, because the stranger will automatically back up, give space and the dog can finally calm down.
Barking at the fence is very-very rewarding. Dogs learn that if they bark, people will leave. In their smart heads, barking is associated with people leaving, and staying away from their property. People pass by on the street anyway, but they don’t understand that. Moreover, barking is naturally rewarding, so they will bark. Every. Single. Time.

Reward means not only a yummy treat, or a squeaky ball thrown by the owner, indeed! This is where the huge misunderstanding roots that leads to ineffective and potentially dangerous advice.

Rewards have three categories:

  1. Primary rewards facilitate survival. These are homeostatic and reproductive rewards. A homeostatic reward can be anything that results in a normal and calm state of the dog (mentally or physically), such as food, sleeping, snapping at strangers around a food bowl, or chewing on furniture. A good example of reproductive reward is the activity of licking bitch piss on the ground (Sorry.)
  2. Intrinsic rewards are unconditioned and naturally attractive and pleasurable like playing with other dogs. Being petted or simply being around others is also naturally rewarding for dogs since they live in families. Smelly treats are also rewarding even for a dog that is not hungry.
  3. Extrinsic rewards are motivating, because they gained their value through learning, associated with a primary or intrinsic reward, like praising and toys. Dog toys are not naturally valuable. They gain their value by playing with them. The words “good boy” don’t mean anything to a dog, but he learns that it is something pleasurable, because he is petted and given treats when he hears the words.

When a dog jumps at people, barks at the fence, snaps at strangers, steals food from the counter, runs away with other dogs to play, pisses the car, tears its bed into pieces are all very, very rewarding.

Where does this advice come from then?

It is based on the phenomenon of extinction. Extinction appears in classical and operant conditioning when a previously rewarded behavior does not predict reward any more, and the behavior likely disappears. The problem with this is that a huge majority of behaviors are primarily or intrinsically rewarding, and not something that was learned to be rewarded by treats and praise. As a consequence, the behavior will not disappear just because the owner ignores the dog.

Ignorance has bad consequences

You can look and walk away, behave naturally, or act as nothing is happening, but it will happen and will repeat every time until you do something about it. In a bad scenario, the behavior can escalate into an even worse behavior: snapping becomes biting, the cute puppy who jumps grows big, the panicking dog escapes – you hear the stories.

The only way to stop a ‘bad’ behavior (in commas since these behaviors are natural for dogs, it is us, humans who label them as bad ones) is by understanding the mechanism how dogs learn, by discovering the individual differences a particular dog has regarding rewards, and by positive training.

Only understanding and learning can result in stopping unwanted behavior for dogs – just as for their owners and trainers.

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Sometimes we have to give up our training plans

This is one of those awful days when I have to give up on our training plans.
– Rosie, come on, we are going out! We are going to practice some heel work and play with a ball. You like games, don’t you?
– Ma’ I love you so much that I’ll lick your hand here where you are holding the leash. Will you hurry up if I jump on you?!
– Rosie, sit down for a moment and stay there.
– Ok, I’ll just sit here and wait until you take on your shoes – wagging her tails.
– Let’s go! It will be so much fun!
– You taught me to sit at the door until you say ‘come’, so I’ll just sit here again.
– You are a good girl – I’m praising her. We are in a good mood.
– Ma’, Ma’ you are so slow, why can’t we just run down the stairs outside?! I have to pee! I want to play! Wait, what’s that noise?
– Rosie, it’s OK, there is someone in the building. Let’s just ‘sit’ and wait until he leaves.
– Ma’, who is that? I want to go outside! I always have to sit!
– It’s okay, look what I have here – yummy treats.
– Maaaaaaa’ Go, go, go!
Gate door opening.
– Who are these people at the gate?! 
– I don’t know, sweetheart. Please, sit behind me, so they can pass by.
– I don’t know who they are – Rosie is sniffing. One of them is familiar, sometimes I scent him outside of our door. I don’t want him to come inside our home. Ma’ I don’t like these people.
– I can see that. Your tail is under your belly. Look at me!
Treat, treat, treat.
– Ma’! They are dangerous! WE MUST ESCAPE THE BUILDING NOW.
– Rosie, stop. You are pulling the leash. Look what I have! I have something extra for you. You got so nervous.
– I don’t want treats – Rosie is spitting out the treats.
– Come on, let’s run, it’ll be fun! Let’s run to the dog park!
– I don’t want treats! I don’t want to run! There is someone at the corner don’t you see?! Let’s just stay here. There is an interesting smell here, just right here…
We are only a few steps away from our house, and Rosie is already in panic, calming herself by sniffing. She has already eaten almost all the treats, but quickly reached the point where she doesn’t accept treats any more. 
… and that’s the moment when I gave up all my plans about training outside.
– Rosie, let’s just go to the dog park.
– Ma’, I don’t like it outside. These people are all coming towards me, they are staring at me! They are following me! I just want to go home. Take me home.

Dog Dangers at Christmas and How I Avoid Them

I love to include Rosie in our Christmas celebrations. After all, she is family, too. However, I have to take steps to keep her safe during the holidays.

1. Christmas Tree and Decorations

I haven’t got a tree since I have Rosie. My daddy doesn’t let me have one, nor electric stuff or candles in the house. ‘It is too dangerous’, he said – no objection. My Mom, who is the Queen of Christmas Decorations, couldn’t let it go. She makes me wonderful, tiny, little trees every year. I love them, they are more than perfect (and enough).

2. Family visits

Rosie can be quite anxious around people, even if it is my family who she loves. She gets exhausted in a pretty short time, and becomes nervous and uncontrollable, just like a little kid. I’ll have to remind my family to give space to the dog and let her chill out whenever she needs it. I’m not planning long visits, and we won’t have guests. I’ll also provide her enough time for mental recovery during the holidays.

3. Christmas Meal

Oh, this is my favorite… In my family, it goes like this: ‘Look at those eyes, she is so hungry! Let her taste the cake, too! She is so cute, she put her head in my lap! She can’t wait until dinner time, it’s too much for her… We are eating, and she can’t? You are so cruel, let that dog have one bite!’ … and it goes like this on and on and on… I can’t change the ‘grandparents’, so I spent a day faffing with doggy biscuits 😀 (For reference, check the Dehydrated Dog Treats Facebook group). My plan was to prepare dog treats and biscuits that my family can give to Rosie, instead of feeding her with human food and leftovers. If nothing else works, she won’t get dinner. I’m cruel, am I not? 🙂

Passing a Milestone: Mantrailing in a Crowded Square

Today we passed a milestone in Rosie’s rehabilitation. She presented a dynamic and confident mantrailing work in a crowded square which is a very big result in our life.

Facing the Obstacles

I have spent several months building up Rosie’s motivation in mantrailing. I have trainers who have helped me to overcome many-many obstacles from attacking the trail layer to becoming stressed on the way back to the car. It was not long time ago, during the summer, when she got frustrated that she had to work in a crowded street. She could do it, but she was not happy, and I was afraid that it would affect her motivation on the long run. I decided to avoid such situations and focused on doing really-really happy trails. Working in a crowded street was a big no-go at that time. I knew I would have to face the problems one day when we would be ready.

From a No-go to a Let’s-go

We live close to Batthány tér. It is a node of public transportation: several buses, a metro, a suburban railway and trams stop here. It is also a popular sightseeing spot for tourists since it is on the bank of the River Danube, exactly in the opposite of the Parliament.

‘Normally’, Rosie panics there. I can’t walk her through this square, because she crawls on the ground and completely shuts down. She either flees or freezes. I tried everything for months, and eventually I gave it up. No treats. No praise. No squeaky balls. Nothing worked. I put our energies into more important things instead of getting used to a f*cking square… But today our team trained here. I don’t say that I didn’t hesitate a bit before the training, but I decided to take on the challenge.

Panic vs. Good Job

I asked a friend who Rosie loves to help us with laying the trail. When I opened the trunk, and Rosie started to wag her tail in the car, I knew we would be OK. The trail was very intense with four short phases. Reinforcement came quickly. We worked through the square starting in one corner, ending up in the opposite one. I knew the trail, of course. I kept the leash very short just as I learned. Rosie just did it! In fact, it was a very dynamic and concentrated work. I didn’t see any sign of hesitation, or distress. The contrast between the panic and the work presented today was huge and amazing! I felt so relieved, happy and proud afterwards, but more importantly, I felt hopeful again.

Learning to trust

Living with Rosie is not easy. Actually, I don’t have words for how difficult it is sometimes. I love her, it is not a question, but time to time I ask myself why I’m doing it? Moments like this one today give me the answer. Our trainer told me that if Rosie was able to overcome such obstacles during mantrailing, I really should start trusting her abilities. I used to hear people telling me ‘Your dog is aggressive. Your dog is too fearful. Your dog has weak nerves.’ Luckily, Rosie was not affected by these awful labeling, and she just proves them wrong. She proves me wrong…

Good job, my girl, keep it up!

 

Left forgotten

I never believed the stories of dogs literally left forgotten waiting patiently for their owners to say a command until it happened to us.

We were preparing for our walk. Rosie usually sits in the door waiting for me while I put on my shoes and jacket. This time I went back to the kitchen to grab some treats. I also remember drinking a glass of water, and my phone beeping. I answered my friend on Facebook, we chatted a bit, then I thought it was time for our walk. I said ‘Rosie, we are leaving’, and went back to the hall looking for the dog. And there she was, sitting exactly on the spot where I left her about ten minutes before… That is a pro stay command!

I realised I completely forgot about her! I’m so stupid sometimes! She got a huge-huge hug and a dozen of treats. She was unbelievably patient! I’m sure she didn’t understand why my tears were running, but I was so sorry and so happy at the same time.

It was an extremely positive reinforcement for her, but I hope it will never happen again.

7th National Mantrailing Seminar

About a hundred dog owners gathered together on the 7th National Mantrailing Seminar in Hungary last weekend, and I was one of them. Here is my personal overview of the event.

From theory to practicing mantrailing

The National Mantrailing Seminar is a one-day event organised by the Budapest Mantrailing Academy (BMA). The program usually consists of theoretic presentations and practical dog training according to The Kocher Method (TKM).

The first speaker, Csaba Gránicz welcomed the audience and introduced the activity, history and goals of the Academy. He also spoke about typical mistakes during training our dogs.  I guess we need to remind ourselves of these mistakes from time to time, because even experienced handlers can make banal errors when they are too confident, but not conscious enough.

Csaba Habony talked about motivation from a practical point of view based on his experience in training. While mantrailing is a taught behaviour for dogs with its own rules and instructions, Csaba also highlighted the opportunity of leveraging the power of a dog’s instincts. His presentation inspired a popular discussion on Facebook among mantrailers about how much of a dog’s work is taught or instinctive and the motivation of a dog (in Hungarian).

The last speaker of the day, Gergely Janovszky led our attention towards practice. By drawing on a flipchart, he presented the most common signs dogs show when they follow a scent. He talked about the different types of training and the role of the dog handler. His presentation was a great teaser for the afternoon activity.

Developing by intensities

We continued our day with dog training in small teams led by BMA trainers. Our team worked in a peaceful and splendid park in Budafok (Google Maps). I was really looking forward to gain new information about Rosie’s performance. There were a few of us who practiced mantrailing as rehabilitation. Rosie was one of the beginners. We still work on the foundations, running only short, fast, motivating intensities with specific goals. Zsuzsi Dombvári, our team leader asked us to define a problem we wanted to address. After each trail we gave feedback to each other.

I felt that Rosie presented a great work compared to herself. I was really proud of her because she dealt really well with the whole situation. The long waiting in the car, those new people around her, and the unknown place could easily be too much for her. Still she worked on the trail really well following the scent of a complete stranger. Working with an unknown person can also be quite conflicting for her sometimes. We were lucky to have an experienced mantrailing trainer as our trail layer.

An opportunity for learning and socializing

Personally, I’m glad that I participated in the seminar. I feel grateful for the opportunity: I learned new things about Rosie’s abilities. I got a strong feedback that I’m on the right way in her rehabilitation. She behaved nicely and patiently throughout the whole day, and it was a big deal for me.

It was also good to see like-minded and friendly fellows who I meet mainly during these occasions. I believe that the mantrailing community needs more events like the National Mantrailing Seminar that provide an opportunity for learning and socializing  – since not only our dogs need that.

 

 

Introducing a New Harness

I find it very important to properly introduce new equipment, such as harness, muzzle, coat, to my dog before we use it. I want Rosie to be comfortable in them and when she sees them, assume that ‘Yeah, we are going to do some fun, let’s go!’

Introducing a new harness was especially important for us since Rosie works in her harness: we practice mantrailing. So, how did I get her used to it?

First of all, I took Rosie to the shop, because I wanted to try the size before purchasing it. She could smell it and get to know it before I put it on her. While trying it, I was giving her lots of treats and praise. I was really happy and enthusiastic about the whole thing, indeed! Really, I like Julius-K9’s stuff, and the shop assistant was nice and helpful, so the whole atmosphere was exciting. (They, too, have a blog post about the topic here.)

Before the first usage, she wore the harness a few times at home. I gave her time to adjust to the feeling of wearing it. We played, practiced some obedience, and she got lots of treats and praise. I guess her favourite ball did the best job!

There is one thing I had to put a bit more effort in, tough. She doesn’t like her head touched very much, especially when she is aroused. So, time to time I give her treats while I’m putting on the harness, and I try to be as quick as possible.

Only fun things can happen in a harness, right?!

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Run! Run! Run!

Recently, I came to an idea how to release the frustration of our everyday walks with Rosie. To be honest, I used to hate dog walking.

We live in the city center. The average stimuli on the street – people, dogs, traffic wardens in yellow jackets, kids running – is just too much for her. Very often she becomes stressed in only a few minutes that ruins the whole activity. I’ve tried lots of things to take the pressure away, and avoid trigger stacking. If I manage to keep Rosie in a relaxed mood, she doesn’t have to feel that her life is in constant danger, and has to react to everything and anything. We are in a much better place than we used to be, but it is still a struggle.

One thing I’m trying these days is that we run home from the corner of the street. I show her a treat in my palm, and start running, calling her ‘Com’ on! Com’ on!’. This is so much fun! She loves running! Her tail is finally up, her whole body is less tense after running a few meters. It makes her so happy, jumping all over me when we stop, paying full attention to me, and even calling me for play sometimes. She becomes even more obedient for the last minutes of the walk.

It’s a really good feeling to finish our walks in a good mood. It makes dog walking much easier for me, too, so I won’t think next time sighing: ‘No, not again…’. Her last memory of the action will be positive. Probably her hormone levels stay normal, too. I suppose she will be less aroused next time when I grab the leash, and slowly learns that walks can be fun, too.

I’m experimenting, but it seems to work pretty well so far.

A Letter to My Dog, Rosie

Dear Rosie,

I know you’ll never read this, but I’m sure you understand everything in your own way.

We have a special bond. I knew it the first time when I saw you, then I made an impulsive decision to take you into my life. It was definitely your big, beautiful, brown eyes! You got your nickname ‘Rosie, the beauty-eyed’ and it has stuck with you forever. I never meant to change the name you got from your temp owner, though. Your chip still reads Rainbow, the symbol of magical blessings when you follow your heart’s desire.

first meetingWhen we first met, you were a 6-month old, frightened, little creature rescued a month before. I was told later that I had been the first person you didn’t bark at, and now I can value how much that means. It was strange, so many things were swirling through my mind. I had never had an own dog before, I was a know-nothing at that time, but I didn’t have the chance to hesitate, it was time to take action.

You were in such a bad shape physically, it took me several months to strengthen your body. You had obvious sings of negligence (and God knows what else): a broken tail, an omphalocele probably from birth, a wrecked immune system causing reactive allergies, a series of urinary infections and diarrhea… We were frequent guests at the vet.

While your body was healing, your own personality started to flourish, too. You became a naughty and reactive dog with fear-based aggression towards people, but I also knew it appeared, because you started to feel secure at home. I could never blame you since you did not have that kind of joyful puppyhood that every dog deserves. Negligence, violence and the lack of socialisation led to your behaviour, I could get that. It was a very difficult period for both of us. I was so desperate and clueless at that time, you made me cry several times. I asked for help in so many places, I even took you to a school where chain collar was still the tool for training. It was wrong, I know, I’m sorry. I’m sorry for the mistakes I’ve made, I still make and for those many more I’ll probably make. You don’t deserve any frustration I put in you for my inexperience, unfortunately we learn things the hard way.

dogschoolYou were already one year old when I finally found a community of experienced and helpful behaviourists and positive trainers who changed the way we live. After a dozen hours of rehabilitation we could finally go to regular dog school. Your rehabilitation continued by mantrailing and we have just started protection work for therapy. Teaching you obedience is an everyday routine for us. I accept that you might never chase butterflies, but I’m sure our hearts’ desire will guide us to damn good places.

You’ll be two in August this year and for now I feel we understand each other much better, and our path of a more conscious development is clear. I promised you I would provide you a fulfilling and joyful life. While doing my best, you teach me about motivation, patience, acceptance, forgiveness, and about living in the moment and never giving up.

I started this blog about us, because I deeply believe in knowledge sharing and the power of dialogue. I’m not a trainer, I only read, observe and ask a lot. I hope our readers bear it in mind, but still find relief for those desperate moments, or new inspiration for their own rehabilitation and training.

Thank you, Rosie, for coming and being an essential part of my life. It’s only together can we reach the furthest.

 

With a neverending love, your owner,

Orsi

Budapest, 7/22/2017

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